Sidebar debate

[HognitiveDissonance]

I don't know if I read this correctly but if I did this is my take. The wife had not slept with him for ten years and he started having an affair six years later that lasted four years. I pity that poor fella for having to endure the drought for six years before he got the nerve to risk getting kicked in the backside because he needed some relief.

Not all affairs are a result of the person involved but can start with the spouse that first loses interest in affection, if you know what I mean.

You can even read that in the Bible. "The man does not have control over his own body, likewise the woman" is the gyst.
Both parties would be at fault in that case. The man obviously has no excuse to get it elsewhere, but the woman is also wrong if he was wanting it and she wouldn't give it.

[theFlyingHog]

You can even read that in the Bible. "The man does not have control over his own body, likewise the woman" is the gyst.
Both parties would be at fault in that case. The man obviously has no excuse to get it elsewhere, but the woman is also wrong if he was wanting it and she wouldn't give it.

Sounds like your bible promotes rape. Is that Sharia law?

[HiggiePiggy]

Sounds like your bible promotes rape. Is that Sharia law?

lol.  Good ole man made books. It can mean anything you want it to be.

[Mike_e]

Sounds like your bible promotes rape. Is that Sharia law?

  It's not called a marriage contract for nothing.

I am a Christian and having said that we all should really stop the theology debates here.  It's an entirely too complex subject to be covered in an internet forum.

[tusksincolorado]

  It's not called a marriage contract for nothing.

I wonder if tonight I tell my wife she is contractually obligated to perform her duties, that this will work out in my favor?

[Mike_e]

  It's not called a marriage contract for nothing.

I wonder if tonight I tell my wife she is contractually obligated to perform her duties, that this will work out in my favor?

You see?

Taking things out of context just gets you in the trashcan.

[HognitiveDissonance]

Sounds like your bible promotes rape. Is that Sharia law?

No it doesn't.
It just means if one party withholds from the other, they are in the wrong. Each person is considerate of the other.

[DeltaBoy]

The Bible promotes mutual submission to prevent sexual sin. Some women drive their man into sin by trying to control him using sex!